Mother’s Day

Who can find a virtuous wife? For her worth is far above rubies. The heart of her husband safely trusts her; So he will have no lack of gain. She does him good and not evil All the days of her life.
Proverbs 31:10

Her children rise up and call her blessed; Her husband also, and he praises her: “Many daughters have done well, But you excel them all.” Charm is deceitful and beauty is passing, But a woman who fears the Lord, she shall be praised. Give her of the fruit of her hands, And let her own works praise her in the gates.
Proverbs 31:28-31

Behold, children are a heritage from the Lord, The fruit of the womb is a reward. Like arrows in the hand of a warrior, So are the children of one’s youth. Happy is the man who has his quiver full of them; They shall not be ashamed, But shall speak with their enemies in the gate.
Psalms 127:3-5

Age Numbers Are Approximate

Stage One
The Commander And Chief Ages 0-4/5
The Focus Is On Early Discipline, Establishing Rules, And Safety.

Stage Two
The Instructor Ages 6-7
The Focus Shifts To Teaching Principles, Character, And Practical Instructions.

Stage Three
The Coach Ages 8-12
Parents Adapt To Coaching, Guiding Decisions Rather Than Just Dictating Them, As Children Enter The Pre-Teen Years.

Stage Four
The Consultant Ages 13-17
Parents Move Into A Role Of Offering Advice, Allowing Teens To Make Decisions And Experience Consequences.

Stage Five
Motivator And Mentor Ages 18–Adult

A Shift From Authority To Influence, Focus On Nurturing A Long-Term, Supportive Relationship.

The Practical Principles In The Riley’s “Home”

The Home: Place Of Protection

Maintain A Consistent Routine

Constant Communication (No Surprises)
Clear Expectations

A House Of Encouragement
Proud Of Them

Atmosphere Of Openness
Successes And Failures

Creating Relational Equity
Money In The Bank

Establish A Strong Family Identity

“Where Family Identity Is Strong, Peer Pressure Is Weak.”
Greg Gunn

Practical
We (Mom And Dad) Are The Strongest Voices In Their Heart!

Establish A Home Of Humility
Five Magic Words

“I’m Sorry, Please Forgive Me.”

Establish Healthy Conflict
(In Front Of Your Kids)

Healthy Conflict

1. “Model What You Are Teaching Your Kids
2. Watch Your Tone Of Voice
3. Listen Well
4. Determine If You Can Let It Go
5. Assume The Best In Your Spouse

Pray And Let
The Holy Spirit Lead